ELI5: Negligence

Can You Sue Your Ex for a Broken Heart

Let’s get one thing out of the way: no, your ex does not have any legal obligation to stay with you. If you’re not happy in your relationship, you can leave without fear of your ex suing you—assuming you don’t intentionally emotionally torment your ex during the breakup. When answering the question, can you sue your ex for breaking your heart? It all depends on how your ex broke your heart. People can do the craziest things when they’re going through a rough breakup. If you’re particularly callous during the breakup, your ex may have a claim against you, even if you don’t physically injure them.


You can file a personal injury claim based solely on emotional distress. If you go to an amusement park and, due to poor maintenance, the roller coaster gets stuck on a loop, and you’re upside down for 30 minutes, you may be able to sue for negligent infliction of emotional distress. Negligent infliction of emotional distress claims are most successful when a personal injury attorney can argue that the defendant was negligent (in the aforementioned case, the roller coaster was not properly maintained), and the plaintiff was in the zone of danger—meaning they reasonably believed they were about to die, or become seriously injured (they were hanging upside down for 30 minutes).


There’s also the intentional infliction of emotional distress. Intentional infliction of emotional distress happens when a person intentionally causes severe emotional distress in another person. But, in most cases, this is more than just calling your ex a mean name one time. Typically, intentional infliction of emotional distress cases involves a consistent pattern of actions that are emotionally damaging to another person. Examples of this may include, repeated cruel text messages, threats of bodily harm, or behaving in intimidating ways. However, cases of intentional infliction of emotional distress do not necessarily need to include a pattern of emotionally abusive behavior. If you do something extreme enough, the person who was emotionally distressed by your behavior may still have a claim against you, even if the incident only happened once.


Can You Sue Your Ex for a Broken Heart

Most people don’t realize that freedom of speech does not mean freedom of consequence. You do have the right to announce to the TSA, “I have a bomb in my suitcase.” However, that doesn’t mean you will not have to suffer the consequences of making bomb threats at an airport, regardless of whether or not you are actually in possession of explosives. After the September 11 attacks, airport security has become much more strict in order to keep everyone safe. And, in order to keep everyone safe, threats such as the aforementioned need to be taken very seriously. When you threaten the safety of others, you can expect to face criminal charges accordingly. Furthermore, you cannot slander or libel another person: you should not falsely accuse your ex of cheating on their taxes if you do not wish to be involved in a defamation suit.


In season two of SpongeBob SquarePants, it’s revealed that Patrick has “an embarrassing snapshot of SpongeBob at the Christmas party.” If Patrick decided to post that photo of SpongeBob to FaceBook, Patrick may be in trouble for intentionally inflicting emotional distress upon his friend, SpongeBob. Not every photo that the camera catches is necessarily a flattering one. If you post pictures of your ex that accentuate their flaws, you may be found liable for the emotional distress that they cause. A lot of times, exes will post embarrassing photos with mean comments about their ex’s appearance. Doing this would help your ex prove that you posted these photos with the intention of emotionally distressing them. If you have pictures of your ex that will make them feel self-conscious about themselves, you may want to refrain from posting them publicly.


Can You Sue Your Ex for a Broken Heart

Though posting pictures of your ex-boyfriend picking his nose may get you into a nasty civil suit, posting racy photos of your ex can land you in even more legal trouble. Many states have laws that punish people who share inappropriate pictures of their exes with other people, or online – especially if it’s done for revenge. If your ex is terminated from their employment because you posted illicit photos of them, they may also have a claim for loss of income. And, if the photos make it impossible for your ex to find a comparable job or destroy their career, your ex may also be able to claim loss of earning capacity. In most states, posting inappropriate photos of another person, without their consent, is a sex crime. Many states have penalties that include hefty fines and jail time for posting the photos—and those are just the criminal punishments. As previously mentioned, your ex may be entitled to compensation in a civil suit for loss of earning capacity, loss of income, and intentional infliction of emotional distress if you publish their intimate photos without their permission.


Though you aren’t legally obligated to stay in an unhappy relationship, you can’t take intentional actions to emotionally torment your ex. If you know, or reasonably should know, that your actions are going to cause emotional disturbances to a vulnerable person, you should refrain from behaving in an excessive way. You do not need to be cruel in breaking up with your significant other, you can simply tell them in a kind way that it’s time to move on. If you’re nice about the break-up, it’ll be pretty hard for them to claim you intentionally inflicted emotional distress on them.


Can You Sue Your Ex for a Broken Heart

If you were injured by the negligence of another person, Moxie Law Group is here for you. We help our clients win the compensation they deserve for physical injuries, loss of income, loss of earning potential, and everything in between. If you have been injured by the negligence of others contact Moxie Law Group today for a free consultation.

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